Elizabeth J. Meyer wrote in her article, "Gender
Harassment in Secondary Schools: Understanding Teachers' Interventions"
about the difficulties that teachers face when attempting to respond to
heterosexual harassment, homophobic harassment, and harassment for gender
nonconformity issues in the classroom. Meyer sees the situation as a
layered, complex challenge; one with varied moving parts
acting separately, making matters more difficult.
Meyers touches upon ‘external influences’ that effect teachers
who are attempting to deal with these uncomfortable issues. One of the most striking aspects was
the administration versus teacher issues that crop up during these bullying
incidents. Meyers writes there was
“a trend of teachers not trusting their administrators to support their actions
and feeling that they have to handle most non-violent discipline issues alone”
(8). While the actual aspect of
teacher vs. administration didn’t necessarily surprise me, the amount of times
the issues came up was shocking.
It seemed to me there was a major bias in powerful positions, a sad fact
that I didn’t expect to find in the article. Since those in power speak the dominant discourse, it should
not have surprised me, but reading all the accounts certainly bummed me out.
I also took issue with the teacher who said:
“[I don’t stop name-calling] if I’m too tired, if there are
set things I need to get through in a lesson. I know my lesson is going to take 60 minutes, I’ve only got
70 minutes to deliver it, I’ve got 10 minutes to waste. Right now my job is being a teacher and
I have to get through the math before the end of the year. It’s not my priority list.”
While I understand this as supporting evidence of the
exhaustion suffered from the constant work teachers face, I do think that
name-calling problems should be seen on a case-by-case basis. If a student, for example, is teasing
or giving another student a hard time, a teacher should use their best judgment
whether to intervene. If the line
is crossed, then the teacher should speak up, no matter the exhaustion
level.
I think this example was a little broad – there are plenty
of battles I didn’t want to fight, but chose to because it was the right thing
to do. Sometimes teachers focus
too much on lesson planning and curriculum and forget that we’re also teaching
proper sociable behavior. I always
remind students this when I hear off-color remarks or homophobic jokes – they
won’t be tolerated in the real world and they won’t be tolerated in the
classroom. Plus, it's just plain cruel and wrong.
The last quote I want to write about was actually the most
frustrating part of the article.
Meyers wrote that “the challenge that this finding presents is how to
raise the awareness of educators who have not personally felt the impacts of discrimination
or exclusion from dominant culture” (17).
I was irritated by this quote for a couple reasons. First, doesn’t everyone feel left out
or alienated at some point in their live?
Is it really so difficult to empathize with students who face gender
discrimination? Are people so
callous? And some of these people
are my colleagues?
I think it’s sad to think only teachers who are directly
affected by discrimination are the ones who actually do anything about these
bullying abuses. Being an observant
person should be able to clue in to teachers that there are students that get
picked on, they need to be specially attended to, and ones who are on the other
side (the bullies) should be taken care of, as well.
Perhaps I’m naive about the awareness of other teachers to these issues. Although I was from a town that doesn’t look at these issues in a good light, I did slowly become aware of the injustices through my interests in history and pop culture.
I found several parallels between the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960’s and the modern LGBT Movement. Today, racism against black people from the 50’s and 60’s is a common lesson taught in classrooms across the country. I think one day the word ‘fag’ will be looked on as badly as the n-word. Hopefully, this day will be sooner than later.
I think that I was made more aware of this, like I wrote above, through my interest in history and pop culture. As I explored the GLSEN.org website, I found myself looking at different profiles of great gay/lesbian/transgender people throughout history. I think the more these are presented in the classroom chances are more students will become more sensitive to what they say to each other.
For example, I think the Stonewall history lesson was interesting - people couldn’t go out to the bar to hang out! This seems like a simple injustice to show to students, something they could easily relate to.
The other history lesson that I thought was interesting was
the fact that there were people who fought to take homosexuality off of a listof mental disorders. I think it
would be good for students to read that homosexuality isn’t a choice – genetics are never a choice. Once students see this more clearly, I think it will be easier to bridge the wide gap currently found in classrooms.
Lastly, I wanted to mention how I was not aware that it was
LBGT awareness month this past month!
One of the resources on the website has the month of October and a
famous LBGT person for each day, much like Black History Month. Hopefully, this will month will be more prominent in our
nation’s consciousness in the future.
Finally, I wanted to note that the movie “Milk” played a major part in my awareness of the difficult history of LGBT people in Ameria and I think it helped expand my consciousness about homosexuality rights in America. Harvey Milk was a fascinating character, a sorta Martin Luther King Jr. of the LGBT-rights movement, and in the right context, could be presented as one of the heroes of America, not just the LGBT movement.
Cory, I felt the same way you did about the reading ... kind of bummed out ... and it is funny how we chose the same quote. The GSA at my school had a note on our morning announcements about LBGT awareness and they played the Milk video one night as a fundraiser. I was so happy the group did this and they had a nice turnout. I think I am hypersensitive to this issue because of my family experiences with a number of cousins that have come out over the years. I have heard their stories of harassment and bullying and it is just so sad. However, most of the kids I know in the GSA at my school and my family members have said that it was a teacher that helped them. It is the teachers that have the power to stop the harassment and to accept their students for who they are whether they are black, or gay, or have purple hair or have tatoos all over their bodies. Our students just need a safe space to be in as they work through their place in the world.
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ReplyDeleteCorey, I really appreciated your parallel between the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s and the modern day LGBT Movement. I hadn't thought of the similarities until I read your post. I haven't seen the movie Milk, but will add it to my (never-ending) list of movies to watch!
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